tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5266670669659028301.post1333880509213807096..comments2023-10-16T05:28:05.622-07:00Comments on The Daily Dosing: If You're not Willing to Change - You should shut up and not complainNHhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17466126254034203883noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5266670669659028301.post-76006915472717120832010-08-26T00:42:51.879-07:002010-08-26T00:42:51.879-07:00I've been carrying on recently about my sister...I've been carrying on recently about my sister-in-law's behaviour and how, not only am I coming this close to losing it, but its actually getting worse - I didn't think this was even possible! Another day though, she'll be three provinces away so...I've always maintained that she will end up some bitter old lady never having taken the time to truly enjoy her life as she'll end up spending the entire longing for something better, something else, something she doesn't have...As there will always be someone who is prettier, or richer, or younger, or whatever, she'll never, ever be satisfied. When will she learn that the grass is never, ever greener...<br /><br />peace, love and happiness...sickgirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16863419230566559818noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5266670669659028301.post-78470247876407955892010-08-23T09:34:46.999-07:002010-08-23T09:34:46.999-07:00SB - Thank you for your kind words, as always. Goo...SB - Thank you for your kind words, as always. Good advice about getting out in nature. I make sure I try to every morning, I'm not sure what I would do w/out it. I go to the beach and do some yoga and I always feel better afterward. And yeah, Mike is finally gone. We see each other occasionally but he's been living with a friend of his and he has half the dogs. So on that front things are looking good. Now if I could just find a job and get out of my mother's house, maybe I could find someone new some day. Although it's not my top priority right now. It's pretty nice not to have someone harping at me all the time. I could use a break from men for a bit. Good to hear from you!<br /><br />NellieNHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17466126254034203883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5266670669659028301.post-54800304893042502122010-08-23T09:08:10.853-07:002010-08-23T09:08:10.853-07:00Jeannie - You always seem to understand my perspec...Jeannie - You always seem to understand my perspective so well. I'm always afraid people will see me as being unreasonable, but you always seem able to see that I just wish people would be held accountable for their actions. I think you have to deal with people who are a lot like the people in my life. I really appreciate your feedback.<br /><br />Always, NellieNHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17466126254034203883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5266670669659028301.post-39884437243820621302010-08-23T09:00:58.842-07:002010-08-23T09:00:58.842-07:00People who are negative are just so draining. Afte...People who are negative are just so draining. After awhile, I start to feel physically sick to my stomach around people like that. Poor you. <br /><br />Try and get out some in nature and away from them. Are you and Mike broken up? Is he gone? Just wondered.<br /><br />Love you!Sarcastic Bastardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17116577711704241625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5266670669659028301.post-72197297764770630572010-08-21T05:17:42.053-07:002010-08-21T05:17:42.053-07:00Your Mom sounds like both my sister and my sister-...Your Mom sounds like both my sister and my sister-in-law. They both want to have everything they want and don't seem to understand "wait" or "compromise" or do without altogether because it's unnecessary or simply because you can't afford it. They both whined about ex's for about 15 years after the divorce - desperate for another man but not seeing that the desperation landed them serious losers rather than the knight in shining armour they wanted. Spoiled seems to sum it up. And irresponsible. And they don't want advice, they don't want to change themselves, they just want the world to revolve around them. Actually, my sister has come around quite a bit to be fair - since pursuing counselling, I think she's had some herself - plus, she's likely come face to face with a ton of people just like her and sees it isn't pretty.<br />I've asked her re clients: Don't you want to tell them to just grow up?<br />And she does but can't phrase it quite like that.Jeanniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15320507412459242451noreply@blogger.com