tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5266670669659028301.post9071020786547301680..comments2023-10-16T05:28:05.622-07:00Comments on The Daily Dosing: My Weekend in Westport with the Misogynistic TyrantNHhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17466126254034203883noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5266670669659028301.post-18424427187072226072010-03-31T08:50:42.855-07:002010-03-31T08:50:42.855-07:00Where are you, girlfriend? Whazzup?
Love,
SBWhere are you, girlfriend? Whazzup?<br /><br />Love,<br /><br />SBSarcastic Bastardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17116577711704241625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5266670669659028301.post-13813984488295028852010-03-25T10:01:23.922-07:002010-03-25T10:01:23.922-07:00SB - He is so totally a doucebag. And he's may...SB - He is so totally a doucebag. And he's maybe coming here, to our house, tonight. And my Mom wants me to cook for him! Well, not just him, but he gets to eat my lovingly prepared food for my family. Ugh, I really dislike him. But I'll be the bigger person and let him eat my food. I guess. Good to hear from you, as always. Be well.<br /><br />Nellie<br /><br />Jeannie - I always appreciate your insight. You have had more life experience than I have, owning your own business and raising kids, so I respect your opinion. I know you are definitely correct in saying my mom has a different perspective on men than my generation. Even though she fronts like she's all for women's rights, deep down I know she just wants to be loved and is willing to overlook a certain lack of values, at least to some extent. Plus, that behavior, like you said, is more acceptable to people her age. She's 57, and Larry is 60-ish. And he's part Japanese, a culture that really treats women very differently than Americans. I can only hope she sticks to her guns about not wanting to get married. That would be so sucky.<br />It's really going to stink having him here for dinner and to stay the night with my Mom. She thinks he may be coming tonight, and staying for at least the night, maybe more. Yippee....NOT, NOT, NOT AT ALL!<br />Anyhow, thank you for the understanding and thoughtful considerations. I really do respect your take on things. I'm honored that you see me as a good daughter. Thanks, Jeannie. Until later, be well.<br /><br />NellieNHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17466126254034203883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5266670669659028301.post-15479390037545679122010-03-24T19:20:50.673-07:002010-03-24T19:20:50.673-07:00Truly, the guy is an ass. I don't know how old...Truly, the guy is an ass. I don't know how old your mom is but I think if she's even just a couple years older than me, she was likely raised to believe she needed a man - any man- to make her life complete. My sister made horrendous choices too. I got to telling her the guys were dicks and should be told to fuck off. She finally realized she didn't know how to choose a good guy and gave up wanting one. My SIL still reads harlequin romances and believes that love happens like that.<br /><br />It must be next to impossible to say nothing. You're a good daughter. Sorry your weekend sucked.Jeanniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15320507412459242451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5266670669659028301.post-3152276411125070492010-03-24T13:27:49.741-07:002010-03-24T13:27:49.741-07:00God, Nellie. So sorry it was such a suckeroo visit...God, Nellie. So sorry it was such a suckeroo visit. That guy sounds like a total douchebag.<br /><br />SB loves you. Hang in there.Sarcastic Bastardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17116577711704241625noreply@blogger.com